Going on a Date Without Breaking the Bank (Part 2)

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When we began researching ways to go on a date without burning a hole in your wallet, we uncovered so many creative, low-cost ideas that we could cram them all into a single article.
Here are several more suggestions to round out our last piece. Be still, bargain-loving hearts!
1. Volunteer together.
Show your date your altruistic side and contribute to the greater good by signing up for a volunteer project together. Catey Hill, author of SHOO, Jimmy Choo! The Modern Girl’s Guide to Spending Less and Saving More, says that you can “feed the homeless, donate your time to a clothing drive, or do something to help those less fortunate than you.” Idealist.org is a good resource for finding volunteer programs in your area.
2. Watch a (minor) ball game.
Dating a sports buff? Tickets to a major league baseball or other sporting event will cost you major bucks. But minor league games are much cheaper and often just as fun. “A minor league game is $10 for a great seat and the concessions are cheap, too,” says 41-year-old Richard O’Malley of Ridgefield Park, NJ. “Plus, there are always fun and interesting contests that go on during the breaks in the action.”
3. Explore your area.
Booth Vance, 32, of Scranton, Penn., suggests a fun, spontaneous date where you and your date drive where the wind blows. “Casual clothing and comfortable walking shoes, a few sandwiches, some water and a full tank of gas is all you need,” he says. After picking up your date, drive to the freeway and make a game time decision when you come to each fork in the road. This way you’ll get to explore new places and see if your date can handle a little uncertainty.
4. Play board games or pub trivia.
Challenging your date to trivia or a board game can be a fun way to see how they respond to friendly competition. Show off your inner mogul with a game of Monopoly. Bring back your childhood favorites like Candy Land or Yahtzee. Or if you’re trying to get closer to someone, try Twister. I’ve had several memorable dates that unfolded over games of Scrabble. After all, what’s sexier than a guy with a big vocabulary?
5. Skip straight to dessert.
Consider eating dinner at home (or separately), then going to a nice restaurant for coffee and dessert. “I doubt there’s a woman alive who would be able to resist the lure of late night chocolate treats, snuggled into a booth at the back of a softly lit restaurant.” says Emma Merkas, owner of $30 Date Night.
6. Hit the beach.
A visit to the beach is inexpensive, and it has the added advantage that you’ll get to see your date in swimwear. While there, you could go rollerblading, swimming, surfing or simply sunbathing, says Los Angeles dating coach Ofer Batt. Depending on where you go, you might also be able to explore the boardwalk, play beach volleyball, and build sand castles together.
7. Attend a student play or concert.
If you’re craving some culture but can’t afford full-price tickets, check the events calendar at one of your local colleges or arts conservatories and look for dance performances, recitals, plays, or concerts. College music and arts programs often schedule inexpensive performances that are open to the public. If you’re an alumnus, you can usually score a discount, too.
Susan Johnston is a Boston-based freelance writer who covers business and lifestyle topics.
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leave a commentThese are all great ideas. I actually like going to the local park to watch the little league games. They’re free, have cheap concession stands, and the little kids are so precious trying to hit the ball. I also love going to Quizzo, a different restaurant each day hosts it and it’s cheap or even free. These are all great ideas. Thanks for posting!
I personally like burning a full tank of gas, but thats not cheap anymore.
#5 is genius. Girls and guys are sometimes uncomfortable eating on blind or first dates. A shared peice of cake on the other hand is a great way to break the ice.
‘You like chocolate? ‘
‘ I LOVE chocolate’ and they live happily ever after.
The one I like the most and have done on multiple occasions myself if the minor league baseball games. Here in Charlotte, we don’t have a major league team so the minor league team is where everyone goes and it’s still super cheap. Thanks for sharing.
Or stay in and make the love. It’s free!
(Unless you make a kid….then it’s very expensive)
Volunteering is an alright idea, you’ll look like such a great person for wanting to dedicate time to helping people… except now you’re dedicating you date’s time as well, and chances are pretty good that they’re not as excited about doing work at a leisurely time even though they might not admit it.
Watch a minor ball game? Watching a major league ball game is nice because you have this excited atmosphere where everyone around you is screaming their lungs out in support of their favorite team. You’re saying you get this in a minor league game? Oh, the point is to watch baseball. Except no one likes to watch baseball. People like to watch players they know, and teams they support doing well.
Explore your area… this is just lame. Hey baby, you know what we should do together? Go for a walk in a direction somewhat unfamiliar. Sexy.
Board games are not fun with two people. This is a great group-date idea yeah, but with two people on a date it’s a pretty fail idea.
Skipping straight to dessert sounds perfectly valid, but let’s think this through. You invite your date over to your place, you impress them with your cooking skills, meal and conversation commence, hopefully wine or beer is flowing the entire time, everything is going great and if things get a little sexy, you’re already at your place. Then you… leave. For dessert. That’s fine, in fact it’s a nice idea. But only if you want to make it clear you don’t want to do anything funky tonight.
Hit the beach… well I don’t know what kind of beaches you live near, but anything close to where I live is filled with flamboyantly sexual dumb people in skimpy clothes and a tan. Not ideal date locale.
Finally… attend a student play or concert. Are you kidding me? You have never been to a student play or concert if you think this is a good idea. Students are horrible actors and horrible musicians. There’s a reason why people go see professionals. Also, it’s a bit weird to go to a student play or concert since everyone there is from the school or related to the students in some way.
Come on. Dates aren’t rocket science. What do you want to achieve in a date? Good conversation and a good time. Any place and any event in which you can talk with your date, possibly about what’s happening around you, with a bit of music and a bit of alcohol is all you need.
You are a fool
8. Going to Costco
Your date will surely appreciate that you are a member of such an exclusive club that you walk from aisle to aisle and people are standing there, waiting to give you FREE FOOD. It’s just like that fancy party that Bruce Wayne threw in the last Batman movie that starred that dead gay cowboy. Sure, you don’t arrive in a helicopter, but I’ll bet none of those rich sonsabitches at that party left with a case of Ramen (two flavors!!!) at such a ridiculous price.
1) torrent a movie
2) tell her to come over
3) order dinner in. For real cheapos, tell her you have to work late and she can come by at 8:30. That’s too late for dinner, oh well hehe
4) watch movie
5) have sex
Reverse 5 and 4 if the chemistry is really good
hit the beach is the most effective way and its entertaining too
Cool. I will try working on the tips. A usual date burns a big hole in the pocket. Thanks for sharing valuable insights.
Keep posting stuff like this i really like it